tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post8257595582216665407..comments2023-09-23T07:24:36.217-04:00Comments on Everything Is Under Control: Miscellaneous thoughtsUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-69874347672637450512007-05-21T14:59:00.000-04:002007-05-21T14:59:00.000-04:00One day at a time!! What ever gets you through! An...One day at a time!! What ever gets you through! And all those other little cheesy cliches!Woman Losthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15511639947257446898noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-28945489483312259762007-05-19T16:29:00.000-04:002007-05-19T16:29:00.000-04:00Smart Sam. ;)Boring can be good. A boring pregnanc...Smart Sam. ;)<BR/><BR/>Boring can be good. A boring pregnancy is even better.Rubyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10098941764877979227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-2999285839172126202007-05-19T13:28:00.000-04:002007-05-19T13:28:00.000-04:00beard, huh? pregnancy is so sexy. :)and numbness ...beard, huh? pregnancy is so sexy. :)<BR/><BR/>and numbness is a fine place to be, Catherine. whatever works. straddling fear and hope and grief and joy is incredibly hard, and often evens out to numb even when there are identifiable strong feelings underneath...just know that so many of us are hoping and rooting for you, and don't really care if all you post for the next seven months is "my beard is growing." we'll be thrilled.<BR/><BR/>as for gender, after losing Finn i thought i really didn't care about what sex O would turn out to be, but got a bit of a shock at my own reaction when the u/s said boy. i was much more frightened for a boy..."my son" to me was the child i had lost, and i had to navigate a lot of triggers over the months following the u/s in dealing with that news and my own fear. i realize it won't be the same for you, having had a healthy Sam...but while you may not care what sex the baby turns out to be, one gender or the other may have triggers for you given all the sorrow you've had to deal with...for awhile i felt really guilty and ungrateful about that until i realized that they weren't all wrapped up in the same thing.<BR/><BR/>i'm probably babbling. happy Saturday. brush that beard for us.Bonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14403701620708365171noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-55246104340199008582007-05-19T08:41:00.000-04:002007-05-19T08:41:00.000-04:00I'm very glad to hear your face is hairy! I have h...I'm very glad to hear your face is hairy! I have hope for you, too, really.<BR/><BR/>And I hope the pregnancy stays uneventful and happy!Sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03887313952590843057noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-14325084788664100182007-05-19T07:34:00.000-04:002007-05-19T07:34:00.000-04:00Personally, I think pregnancy blogs should be bori...Personally, I think pregnancy blogs should be boring. They should be a right royal bore in the ass :) :) :)<BR/><BR/>And I'm sure you couldn't care less what the sex is, right?<BR/><BR/>XAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-5969164905383503302007-05-19T01:43:00.000-04:002007-05-19T01:43:00.000-04:00I'm rooting for youxI'm rooting for you<BR/><BR/>xDrowned Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07930956007436787200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-55258408281639518712007-05-18T23:22:00.000-04:002007-05-18T23:22:00.000-04:00I did wonder about that, if this one was a girl. I...I did wonder about that, if this one was a girl. I've lost two known girls and if I get pregnant again part of me would like to finally have that girl. The other part of me would hope for a boy so I wouldn't think of the "what ifs" in comparison. It does deserve a long post, but I get it.DDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17864339996118337420noreply@blogger.com