tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post299458773400949977..comments2023-09-23T07:24:36.217-04:00Comments on Everything Is Under Control: What's wrong?Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-67547347370117048032008-07-21T14:21:00.000-04:002008-07-21T14:21:00.000-04:00Kate, I'm grappling with that "is this the next st...Kate, I'm grappling with that "is this the next stage of my life" thing right now, too.<BR/><BR/>Let's go cry in the same Penneys some time. :)marybidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14100986477346925113noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-4253641152255180362008-07-20T01:53:00.000-04:002008-07-20T01:53:00.000-04:00"And I really can't help but wonder if what I'm fe..."And I really can't help but wonder if what I'm feeling is a longing for what I lost in the past rather than a wish for future children. And that mind f*** is just too complex for me to untangle"<BR/><BR/><BR/>That is exactly me. Exactly.ms. Ghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15263348912679823512noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-19119838498822609142008-07-19T16:10:00.000-04:002008-07-19T16:10:00.000-04:00Yeah, I get it, I have a post about this I've been...Yeah, I get it, I have a post about this I've been meaning to do because I just can't risk dying to have another one....even though I've always wanted 6 kids.<BR/><BR/>I wish my husband would just do this and get it over with....it would end my waffling.Aureliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13691032415028867902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-37438135532121109572008-07-19T12:00:00.000-04:002008-07-19T12:00:00.000-04:00Sorry you had such a bad day. I agree with kate - ...Sorry you had such a bad day. I agree with kate - do you have to decide this right now?Rosepetalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11198906406934870970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-13611984904138752922008-07-19T08:43:00.000-04:002008-07-19T08:43:00.000-04:00dh & i are sure we don't want to try again...dh & i are sure we don't want to try again, but still no snip-snip. That is so *permanent*, and you never really know. So we went with something else, there are lots of options out there. Do you have to decide this right now? Maybe just put off the decision a bit?<BR/><BR/>((((hugs)))) to you!katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16536809590856333391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-28239843740026600382008-07-18T18:10:00.000-04:002008-07-18T18:10:00.000-04:00I hear you. All of it. And I don't have to face ...I hear you. All of it. And I don't have to face a stinky van somewhere in my future (just a broken down Jeep, but nevermind...). It's a hard decision, and I think that it's even worse when you've had to grappel with the after-affects of loss, or something like infertility, which is my demon. Virtual hugs are all that I can offer, but they come in unlimited supply!JMBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12903514053154713614noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-57342534299865928112008-07-18T15:52:00.000-04:002008-07-18T15:52:00.000-04:00Big hugs to you my dear friend. I wish I could co...Big hugs to you my dear friend. I wish I could come take you out for a drink or two and give you a shoulder to cry on. <BR/>I don't have any good advice for you other then to take your time with a decision and is it PMS? ;) Love ya!Shinnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11233585920183280455noreply@blogger.com