tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post115980922448215133..comments2023-09-23T07:24:36.217-04:00Comments on Everything Is Under Control: Adoption v. PregnancyUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-1160486078856053572006-10-10T09:14:00.000-04:002006-10-10T09:14:00.000-04:00you know that i am thinking about you as you make ...you know that i am thinking about you as you make these decisions. i hope you can find an answer that brings you peace. i wish you only happiness. i love you sis.Danahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00674118222114023262noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-1160150157916676402006-10-06T11:55:00.000-04:002006-10-06T11:55:00.000-04:00I've been meaning to add some support to this post...I've been meaning to add some support to this post -- this has got to be a really tough choice and you seem to be handling it in the best way you can - weighing the options based on what's right for YOU. Not ugly at all in my book.Lisa P.https://www.blogger.com/profile/04048193493804649016noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-1159921980417141452006-10-03T20:33:00.000-04:002006-10-03T20:33:00.000-04:00Thank you for saying that. And I scream along with...Thank you for saying that. And I scream along with you...lorem ipsumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04034551632421077938noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-1159862714357038742006-10-03T04:05:00.000-04:002006-10-03T04:05:00.000-04:00I can only offer you ((((hugs))) from afar. As you...I can only offer you ((((hugs))) from afar. As you once commented on another blog, time is dragging you forward when you want to stop and go back. When I read what you write you do seem like a strong person but I also know you didn't choose to have to be strong and it sucks.Rosepetalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11198906406934870970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-1159840853080768752006-10-02T22:00:00.000-04:002006-10-02T22:00:00.000-04:00When you lose a child and decide you want another ...When you lose a child and decide you want another child, either option is hard to come to. You are taking your chances in opening yourself up to more loss. You just have to do what you believe will have the best outcome for you. Of course the outcome may not be what you envisioned, but at least you tried.Wendyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00585765386608759975noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-1159839493750640452006-10-02T21:38:00.000-04:002006-10-02T21:38:00.000-04:00I respect and admire you no matter what you think,...I respect and admire you no matter what you think, write or chose.Clarehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08186138257956053203noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-1159839061527159042006-10-02T21:31:00.000-04:002006-10-02T21:31:00.000-04:00I will be thinking of you and your family as you g...I will be thinking of you and your family as you go through this agonizing decision. Good luck. I do think you are wrong when you say it might destroy you. You are one of the strongest/bravest women that I've never met, but dream of becoming. I cry as I write this beacuse it's not fair. You deserve all of your dreams and wishes to be granted. Bless you. You make me believe in the future.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-1159836519303964092006-10-02T20:48:00.000-04:002006-10-02T20:48:00.000-04:00you're right. it's not fair.you're right. it's not fair.Beccihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02843445845439279244noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-1159833415243865372006-10-02T19:56:00.000-04:002006-10-02T19:56:00.000-04:00So sorry that you have had to go through this. Ado...So sorry that you have had to go through this. <BR/>Adoption is often touted as the perfect solution but you are right, it does have obvious drawbacks.<BR/>You have every right to be hesitant. I hope the answer will be there for you someday.<BR/>Thinking of you.Lhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12635877618193159522noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-1159825595072926532006-10-02T17:46:00.000-04:002006-10-02T17:46:00.000-04:00This is not ugly, I have huge issues on this, so I...This is not ugly, I have huge issues on this, so I totally understand. I'm so sorry it's so awful. The good thing is, you are dealing with it, by writing about it. And whatever happens, you will have it all worked out someday. By writing and talking and talking some more.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-1159824137430626572006-10-02T17:22:00.000-04:002006-10-02T17:22:00.000-04:00I can see how both options are ugly. Both options...I can see how both options are ugly. Both options involve a lot of grieving followed by a HUGE leap of faith. Both options leave you without two of your children.<BR/><BR/>I guess the only way to approach a decision is to be open and honest with yourself. Eventually, the right decision will find you.delphihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07529670960180261467noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-1159822322429487222006-10-02T16:52:00.000-04:002006-10-02T16:52:00.000-04:00I don't think anything you said is too ugly. It's...I don't think anything you said is too ugly. It's where you are now.. and that is ok. It's better to write/talk about it.<BR/><BR/>And I understand what you are saying. Neither choice is easy.SWHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06571144622886527378noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-1159819955489382622006-10-02T16:12:00.000-04:002006-10-02T16:12:00.000-04:00I don't know, hun. Noone can decide but you & Ste...I don't know, hun. Noone can decide but you & Steve...but you know that already. Maybe you're not ready to decide yet. I know you will eventually find your way but i hope you can find some light soon...katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16536809590856333391noreply@blogger.com