tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post114531265000568270..comments2023-09-23T07:24:36.217-04:00Comments on Everything Is Under Control: Do you know what this is like?Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-1145361476010358002006-04-18T07:57:00.000-04:002006-04-18T07:57:00.000-04:00I've been told I need to work on getting my rage o...I've been told I need to work on getting my rage outside of my body. My therapist (who also lost a child due to labor complications) said she used to spend 10 minutes hitting the bed with a racketball racket. I'm thinking that after my post today I may need to finally try it out. <BR/><BR/>Just a thought. <BR/><BR/>Hugs. Although not fun, your feelings are normal i think. Just try to find an outlet for some of those feelings so you can feel a little lighter.SWHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06571144622886527378noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-1145323535370854072006-04-17T21:25:00.000-04:002006-04-17T21:25:00.000-04:00between hans's death and the tadpole pregnancy, i ...between hans's death and the tadpole pregnancy, i took out my aggression on poor unsuspecting people whom i EDUCATED with my verbal hammer when they said pat, stupid things. and i yelled at justin OFTEN. during my frustration with the first part of this pregnancy, i worked it out by whining at my doctor and his secretary a couple of times a week. there must be someone you can let have it. their wellbeing is not your responsibility. if you need to let someone have it, i say, go for it.laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12650967136734094216noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-1145318598116661192006-04-17T20:03:00.000-04:002006-04-17T20:03:00.000-04:00((((((((hugs))))))))) Sometimes, though, it *is* ...((((((((hugs))))))))) Sometimes, though, it *is* good to lighten the load. Yell, scream, rave, throw things. It is cathartic.<BR/><BR/>Probably not during a civilized lunch, though...katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16536809590856333391noreply@blogger.com