tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post112871838049256501..comments2023-09-23T07:24:36.217-04:00Comments on Everything Is Under Control: How much is too much?Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-1128903904110624502005-10-09T20:25:00.000-04:002005-10-09T20:25:00.000-04:00You came pretty late to my blog. You missed the pa...You came pretty late to my blog. You missed the party!!!! Where I said all kinds of nasty and hurtful things about my pregnant friends because I was bitter, jealous, suicidal and above all ANGRY at the world. <BR/><BR/>But you know what? You do the best that you can do. If people don't want to hear it, no one is making them. The good people will stick with you and they will love you no matter what. They will remember that this is just a time in your life...that there were all kinds of times before and there will be all kinds of times after this time.<BR/><BR/>I have often asked myself this same question...I guess for me it's "have I expected too much from people?" I don't know the answer. I just know that at no other time in my life have I felt so let down by so many people...it is very hard to reconcile whether it's them or me.Roxannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08915721334800247580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-1128813564604280882005-10-08T19:19:00.000-04:002005-10-08T19:19:00.000-04:00regarding david: you know, he wrote a play about ...regarding david: you know, he wrote a play about losing his son that he chose to put out there in the public eye. he was the one, when i was afraid of freaking people out by talking about hans, who encouraged me to stop not talking about him. he continues to perform the play now to professional groups that recognize its educational value. he is not about not talking about it. he gets it. <BR/><BR/>i know i've encouraged you before to say what needs to be said about alex, because i believe other people will follow your lead, and because by doing so you honor alex. that you have this concern means you are not a loon and are paying attention as to when it's appropriate to talk about him - my point being that if you were out of touch, you wouldn't be aware of it to worry about it.<BR/><BR/>and ultimately your blog MUST be a safe place for you. it's up to you to make it that place, if you don't feel it is now.<BR/><BR/>and on a lighter note, are you still coming to our rocktoberfest in two weeks? and do you want to stay overnight in our carriage house? e-mail me!laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12650967136734094216noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-1128788849867997602005-10-08T12:27:00.000-04:002005-10-08T12:27:00.000-04:00We wouldn't read and comment if we wanted you to s...We wouldn't read and comment if we wanted you to shut up... Keep talking, keep writing, keep thinking. <BR/><BR/>It's your blog you can do what you wish and damn the rest.<BR/><BR/><BR/>*ps: secret word was: einkanvo*cathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05499558026064730483noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-1128721293376006042005-10-07T17:41:00.000-04:002005-10-07T17:41:00.000-04:00You seem extrememly sensible in your grief to me a...You seem extrememly sensible in your grief to me and in no way whiney or kooky.<BR/><BR/>And this is the place where all those expectations do not apply. Where you have to behave as though you are over it in real life, you don't here. So don't feel you need to.<BR/><BR/>Just keep writing Catherine:)Jillianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16390479974754816006noreply@blogger.com