tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post112446416095856575..comments2023-09-23T07:24:36.217-04:00Comments on Everything Is Under Control: Look at me - Don't look at me - Talk to me - Don't talk to meUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-1124660750115343812005-08-21T17:45:00.000-04:002005-08-21T17:45:00.000-04:00I think when I stopped reading the loss boards, it...I think when I stopped reading the loss boards, it was because I got to a point where they weren't helping ME anymore and I had enough of my own pain that I didn't want to deal with the pain that seemed to always be there on the boards. You be selfish as long as you wish. You deserve it.MBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10090873170016511220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-1124583813764402292005-08-20T20:23:00.000-04:002005-08-20T20:23:00.000-04:00{{{{hugs}}}}{{{{hugs}}}}Danahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00674118222114023262noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-1124501567437504532005-08-19T21:32:00.000-04:002005-08-19T21:32:00.000-04:001. I am an advocate of selfishness, sometimes ther...1. I am an advocate of selfishness, sometimes there is strength in selfishness. You have to do what you need.<BR/><BR/>2. Anyone who quotes Bowie is way cool.<BR/><BR/>Sorry I have been out of touch, it has been a stupid busy summer. I LOVE the drawing of Alex. He's beautiful. I have, on occasion, thought of sketching Calvin - which would be an exercise in idealism, if it were to make him look anything like "nice" - but I haven't been able to. Maybe some day. It's very good that you have something to show like that.pengohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06159516848217178336noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-1124491393180202742005-08-19T18:43:00.000-04:002005-08-19T18:43:00.000-04:00Exactly, if it isn't helping, don't go there. I do...Exactly, if it isn't helping, don't go there. I don't find them 'interesting' anymore. It's not that i don't have sympathy, but they are strangers and it seems as though they are really heavy when they jump in the bucket - it's different than when it is someone you know(online or otherwise).<BR/><BR/>I'm so pleased you have both photos up and they make you happy.Jillianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16390479974754816006noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8836584.post-1124466316904484472005-08-19T11:45:00.000-04:002005-08-19T11:45:00.000-04:00I am the first kind of person. But I really am spe...I am the first kind of person. But I really am special. And modest too. Ha! (It's okay if you hate me. Everybody else does too.)<BR/><BR/>One of the best analogies I saw about grief was that grief was like a series of hills that you had to go up and down and up and down. I find that to be true for myself...that sometimes I feel really good and then sometimes I way back down at the bottom of the hill again...You may be catching some of these women when they're at the bottom of the hill. <BR/><BR/>But if the boards aren't helping then by all means you should stay away from them. You seem very strong!Roxannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08915721334800247580noreply@blogger.com